Should You Move Closer to Help Your Aging Parents?

You may notice that your parents need some assistance with daily tasks as they age. They may be having some health concerns as well. However, is it time for you to move closer to them? How can you tell if you are overstepping your boundaries or a good idea to devote more time to their care?

Deciding when to live nearby requires many considerations, including how it will affect your life and your parents’ lives. You don’t want them to feel like you are taking away their independence. Ensuring their safety without encroaching on their way of life is tricky because they may need more aid than they are willing to admit.

Things to Look For

According to a nationwide survey, one in five Americans provide unpaid care for family members. Look for the following critical signs that may indicate your loved ones need additional support.

Health Concerns

If your parents have medical problems that require specific care, they may need someone to assist them. Ask them about their doctor visits and assess whether they take their medications as directed. If they are struggling to maintain good health, it may be time to consider moving closer.

Confusion

Pay attention to signs of cognitive decline. Not everyone’s memory is perfect, so some forgetfulness is a normal part of everyday life. However, if they seem disoriented completing daily tasks or become upset when they can’t remember something, this could point to a matter that needs attention.

Lack of Home Maintenance

If you see that your parents’ home lacks care, they may feel overwhelmed with the requirements of maintaining their property. Even if you do not move nearby, you can help by hiring a maid service or lawn care company.

To find reliable services when you aren’t local, search for nearby providers and read online reviews to narrow down your options. Discuss your loved one’s landscaping needs with local contractors to get quotes. Be sure to ask them about any current deals they are offering or potential discounts. Look for house cleaning services from senior care companies to find professionals that understand your parents’ unique needs.

Other Considerations

If it seems best to live near your older family members, there are many other details to address in addition to their care needs.

Thoughtful Conversations

Discuss your moving plans with your parents to see how they feel about them. Do they want you to live close? You do not want to cause discord or make them think you are taking over their lives. Talk to them about their expectations and yours.

Manageable Property

Your senior relatives likely live in a house that is bigger than they need. A large house presents challenges that are difficult to navigate and take significant work to maintain. Perhaps your parents should not be climbing stairs, or maybe they have more rooms than they can take care of effectively. You may need to help them find new living options that better suit their current lifestyle. Or you may only need to make a handful of modifications that allow them to safely remain in their home independently.

If a smaller home is the best solution, Atlanta real estate expert Matthew Share can assist in helping your parents sell their current home and buy a new home. With a keen awareness of the Atlanta real estate market Matthew can point your relatives toward ideal neighborhoods and properties, and guide them every step of the way.

Moving Process

To make your move or theirs more manageable, look into professional moving services to eliminate this major burden. You or your parents are likely to have myriad things on your mind with this life change. Finding ways to minimize tasks will go a long way to easing the process for everyone involved.

Moving closer to help your older relatives is a complex process that can be taxing and emotional for everyone. When you take the time to ensure you are making the right decision and address the essentials for your parents’ care and your own needs, you will all benefit.

Content contributed by Andrea Needham of eldersday.org